An Insignificant Detail

Jan. 15th, 2026 06:26 pm
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It probably doesn't make much sense, but I prefer eating pistachios by cracking them out of the shell.
I know, I could buy them pre-shelled and simply stuff them in my mouth but, for some reason, I prefer to slowly work at each one separately.

Silver Spoons

Jan. 11th, 2026 08:30 pm
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In Victor Hugo’s Les Miserables... Jean Valjean steals the silver spoons and forks from Monseigneur Bienvenu - even after being shown a great hand of kindness. The gendarmes return Valjean promptly where, without reproachment, the bishop insists he had given Valjean the silver and furthers to mention that Valjean has forgotten the very valuable silver candlesticks. It is then, in a moment, that a new path begins to open for the man....

”No one could have told what was passing within him, not even himself. In order to attempt to form an idea of it, it is necessary to think of the most violent of things in the presence of the most gentle.

Even on his visage it would have been impossible to distinguish anything with certainty. It was a sort of haggard astonishment. He gazed at it, and that was all. But what was his thought?
It would have been impossible to divine it. What was evident was, that he was touched and astounded. But what was the nature of this emotion?”



Ultimately this terrible rapscallion becomes a person of great character....all for a few candlesticks - or rather, for the gesture to which they are a symbol. (okay, just like a grade school book report - You’ll have to read the book to find out how it ends) I will say though, It amazes me how such small acts of kindness, understanding and generosity often have the power to affect a person’s life in very positive and substantial ways. Especially when they may seem undeserved.

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For those who showed me kindness for all the times when even "I was a girl"...

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And for all the times as a boy that I rejected what I knew was right and for all the family holiday dinners that seemed so much less important than they really were and all the friends that I treated cruelly, and for my children when I wasn’t really that great of a single parent, and for the relationships that were less than healthy, and for the times I ignored my friends and for the days when I brought my work home when I should have been paying more attention to my family, and for the nickel of milk money that I took out of Sharon’s desk in the 3rd grade, and for stupid argument I had with my wife in Penn Station and for the way I made fun of people and for the deck of playing cards that I stole from Loo’s Pharmacy and for the cars that I vandalized with spray paint when I was ten and for the times of being so angry about cancer that I lost my patience and kindness, and for the days that I just didn’t feel like going to the VA Hospital to see my dad, and for all the returnable soda bottles I stole from the back of the Hudson to cash in at two cents each, and for a list
that could run on forever...

Epidemiology: always, ALWAYS

Jan. 4th, 2026 08:31 pm
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She said her heart was going a thousand miles an hour – waiting for news that wasn’t going to be good. She told me he was ”always, ALWAYS" clean-shaven but for the past few days, he just couldn’t. And then she
tried to pay me for ”a cup of coffee with just a little cream”.

It reminded me of when the one time in all recorded history, my mom’s bed was left unmade. She never returned home.

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I love the rich running day, but I do not desert her in whom I lay so long, I know not how I came of you and I know not where I go with you, but I know I came well and shall go well.

From: "The Sleepers", Walt Whitman


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